Abu Dhabi Jiu-Jitsu Pro Trials - New York
This weekend I went to the Abu Dhabi pro trials in NY, a tournament where I had some unfinished business. For those of you unfamiliar, the prince of Abu Dhabi has a very healthy obsession with jiu jitsu to the extent that it is mandatory PE for both boys and girls in public schools in his country. He also sponsors a professional world jiu jitsu championship every year. There is a series of qualifying tournaments around the world and if you win one, you get a cash prize as well as an all expense paid trip to compete in the pro jiu jistu championship in Abu Dhabi.
This past February, I had tried to qualify for the 2013 Abu
Dhabi championships, but ended up falling short. I was bummed about this, not
only because of losing, but because I felt that I hadn’t performed as well as I
could have. I got back down to business and, since then, I have had an awesome
6 months of jiu jitsu. Really, I could not be happier with how I have been competing
or more excited about the martial art as a whole. And so I decided to give Abu
Dhabi another shot.
This year, there are two qualifiers in the US – one in CA
and one in NY. These tournaments are not huge in terms of numbers, but because
of the prizes, they attract a high level of competition. The main reason I wanted
to qualify for the 2014 Abu Dhabi tournament was because, when all is said and done,
I wanted to be able to say that I had accomplished all that I had set out to do
as a blue belt. And winning a blue belt ticket to the world pro tournament was
one goal that I had yet to realize.
And I am bummed to say that I fell short again. I won my
weight class, but in the semifinals of the absolute division I got caught by a
very fast armbar, ending my chances of winning the trip. And as with last year,
it was not the loss that was so hard to swallow, but the feeling that I had not
brought my best self to that match. The match had been over before I could
blink, let alone use my jiu jtisu.
The tournament had not been the most organized event and it
dragged on behind schedule and into a very long day. It was hot and stuffy in
the gymnasium and I had spent the moments before the absolute division feeling
that my gi top was too tight and that there was not quite enough air in the
room. This waiting dragged out for over an hour. So once I had lost and my matches
were over, I left the competition area and took off my gi to cool off. Then
came the post tournament adrenaline dump. After keeping me buzzed for most of
the day, my adrenaline finally crashed. It was after 9 PM and my mom and I were
weary and hungry, but good sportsmanship dictated that I stick around for
podium pictures and to collect my medal. It was hard to wait. I was so disappointed
in myself that I had to put my phone away because all the messages of
consolation from my teammates were making me teary.
It was then that I heard my name over the loudspeaker. This
was my last chance to report to the bull pen. Huh? I had already been eliminated. What did they need me for? It
turned out that unlike the IBJJF, which awards bronze medals to both
semifinalists, this tournament required an actual bronze medal match to
determine who would get the medal.
I had no time to listen to Lil’ Wayne as I normally do to
get pumped up for a match. In fact, I had never been less pumped to compete. I
was disappointed and depressed and was all out of adrenaline. Part of me wanted
to drop out and yield bronze to my opponent, but I never seriously considered
it. I grabbed my sweaty gi and dragged myself back to the competition area.
I don’t think she meant to do it, but my mom shot me a sad face
as I stepped onto the mat. It was as if she was already preparing for me to
lose again and was expressing her sympathies.
But you know what? Somehow when the prize was no longer a
factor and my motivation was gone, I managed to have my best match of the
tournament. My opponent and I were not fighting for a cash prize or a free
trip, but for pride and a bronze medal. It probably was not the prize that
either of us would have wanted, but we were still fighting for it.
In the end, I walked away with a gold, a bronze, and more
unfinished business with this tournament. I am trying to figure out why I had 3
great IBJJF tournaments this year, sandwiched on both sides by disappointing
Abu Dhabi trials. The pressure of a big all-or-nothing prize probably has
something to do with it. But I think the other part is that I am just stronger when
I am with my team. For the IBJJF tournaments, I was part of a larger group - training,
dieting, and competing together. The Abu Dhabi trials were solo ventures. While
I still had the support of my coaches and teammates, I would be the only one
actually travelling to and competing in the tournament. Competing well solo is
something that I need to practice and get better at.
Making Abu Dhabi is still on my jiu jitsu bucket list, but
it might be a few years before I try again. Right now, I am looking forward to
taking a few months off of competing. For a while, it will be nice to just
enjoy training and learning for its own sake rather than to win a tournament.
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| I'm not really sure how this shiner happened...I didn't feel it until after my last match was over |
